Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Best friends...❤️

I have some truly awesome friends...

First of all, they're really nice, unpretentious, and to your face (not behind your back) honest people. As a result, some of us have been kicked out of houses and reviled by in-laws and outlaws...

We pretend we don't care.

We have each other, and when we are together, we have the best meals, the loudest gut wrenching laughter, and the warmest of hearts, knowing that confidences and words are honored. 

Coincidentally, my friends are also all beautiful, smart, worldly, generous, fabulous cooks...and most of all, FUN!
So, to my "bestest" of friends, gentle souls all...you know who you are, and I'm sure you know that I love and appreciate you ❤️😘
P.S. You are also the most amazing supporters and publicists for THE LIBYAN, and I don't know what I would have done without you...
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️









Monday, March 14, 2016

THE LIBYAN...A Gift from the Past

I had such a wonderful gift from the past  today, from my Singapore American School classmate Fielden Lundy. He sent me a pic from our graduation class which I had never seen before, and wrote a special review as only someone who lived a similar life in a similar time can understand and relate to. 
Thank you, Fielden, from my heart to yours 
❤️

The Libyan, by Esther Kofod, begins as a travelogue, the experiences of growing up in a foreign land, traveling for one’s education, meeting new people and experiencing new cultures. The book changes to a love story, full of emotion and feeling. Then, it is a cultural narrative, the experience of new customs and foods and surroundings, the historical and modern view of Libya itself. Slowly, the story becomes a spy thriller, full of intrigue, deception, fear and terror.

Esther does a wonderful job writing these transitions and in weaving them together. We experience the wonder of foreign lands, the overwhelming feelings of love, the history and significance of Libya, the curiosity of new places and the fear of not knowing where life is going. There is joy, there is terror, there is resignation.

The book tells a personal story but with definite worldly undertones. It is often a mirror on the events of the present. Given the political and cultural forces currently at work in the Middle East and elsewhere, Esther’s book is very timely and relevant. It shows that Libya was, and is, far different from the Libya the news shows us. The people, the love of family and country are not so different from our own.

I grew up overseas as well. Esther and I were classmates at the Singapore American School. Reading her words brought back to me many of the feelings Esther describes; curiosity about new places, people, cultures, and foods. The feeling that you are never really at home anywhere. The realization that the world is much larger and fuller and more fascinating than you had ever believed.

I highly recommend The Libyan. It will open your eyes in so many ways. It will expose you to so many different emotions.

THE LIBYAN
Esther Kofod


Sunday, March 6, 2016

International Women's Day...

My deepest respect and prayers for women everywhere struggling to make a life for themselves and their children ...❤️

#Yemen

Monday, February 29, 2016

Correcting liars and hypocrites...

The main reason why lies and hypocrisy is becoming more common, bordering on acceptable, is simply because it is "politically incorrect" to correct liars and hypocrites...
I asked someone once why he told his wife an unnecessary lie, and he matter-of-factly replied "I knew that's what she wanted to hear". His lie made him look good to his wife at the expense of another person, and he made me an unwitting accomplice because I never told her the truth. 
Donald Trump is a prime example of a liar and a hypocrite, who tells certain people what they want to hear, and because of that he's become an unstoppable political phenomenon...people get the government they deserve.
Unfortunately, there are too many people who would rather hear a pleasant lie than an unpleasant truth...




Friday, February 26, 2016

Remembering the spirit of humanity...

The planet desperately needs more peacemakers, healers, restorers, story tellers and lovers of all kinds...
Dalai Lama


Sunday, January 31, 2016

To an inspirational young Libyan...

Esther Kofod
THE LIBYAN
http://amzn.to/1Qcmc6C

Of all the reviews I have received, this one means the most to me because it is from a young Libyan woman who is not afraid to speak from her heart. I have never met her, but we started communicating after her review, and I am amazed by her. She is so inspiring, so articulate, and so special. 
I pray that Libyans will unite, so that brilliant young Libyans like her can start rebuilding the future with the traditions from the past. 
Thank you, Omnia, from my heart to yours, and God Bless Libya ❤️

  A very touching story with great storytelling skills
By Omnia Eteyari - January 27, 2016
Amazon Verified Purchase

I'm Libyan, and I found this book truly describes a lot of the old Libyan culture back in the seventies, and some of which remained till today. The details and heart it was written with made me so emotional in certain pages, either forcing a loud laughter while describing some very special Libyan traditions, or tears while memorising the horror that surrounded Libyans for 42 years. But above all, I can't help but feel so sorry and some sort of responsibility over the hardship, pain and sadness the author has gone through, either in Libya or by Libyans. I appreciate very much that she toke the time to write her story, which I think is a very good reference for the near history of Libya in a joyful romantic and dramatic layout. Thank you!!

It's been a while since a book was able to force me to keep reading non-stop. This one did, from the very first chapter I couldn't wait to know what's next, that I finished it in 3 days.

It is a romance novel written with a great amount of details and emotions, that makes you live in the story, see the people and places, hear the sounds, and feel the heat. It highlighted so much of the Libyan qualities, beautiful traditions, and good deeds; however, also shed a strong light on some of the dark parts of the Libyan culture, especially back in the seventies, during which most of the story events took place.

As much as I've heard about the horror Libyans have encountered because of Gaddafi in the late seventies and eighties, and even though things did not get much better after that when I became old enough to understand what was going on, but this is one of the few times where I actually felt it so strong, the effect of his evil on people's lives and minds, the power he had not only to kill, but to destroy families and poison people of principles and ethics.

This is the kind of stories that stays with you even after you finish reading. You know that it is not just a fiction, but actual facts and events that happened to real people.

After I finished, I couldn't stop the questions circling in my mind, how? why? what? and, until when?